Now this post is exclusively for people who believe in forever.
If you're an optimistic person please do not proceed it might change the way you look at life.
I've already talked about love and have already told you about the shit that it is.
So i am gonna talk about family and friendship in this one.
Let's start with friendship. Yes , its amazing but there's the evil side to it too.
Believe me no frienship is forever.
Some or the other day it will end and then the person who was once so close to you will turn into somebody you just used to know.
I mean some or the other day some problem will kick in and you and your beee aiiff aiiff will stop being friends for some or the other reason.
Don't believe me?
Let me enlighten you with some good examples.
There's this girl who has a beee aiiifff aiiiff.
Now both of them are single.
And hence are 24/7 on the phone with each other.
They become really close.
Like really really close.
But then reality kicks in.
They two have a fight and don't talk for weeks.
And when they start becoming friends again , they both are commited.
So now , they obviously don't talk to each other 24/7 actually they don't even talk.
And obviously it doesn't even affects them. Does it?
Why?
I'll give you the damn reason.
Their relationships!
When you are single , it's like you need to find happiness in small things like rain , those special and occasional hugs and kisses you get from your brother, those chocolates you get from your best friends, the joy you get on sharing a small chocolate of 6 peices with 10 people .
So when they were single , they sort of made themselves each other's biggest happiness but when they suddenly got boyfriends or new-source-of-happiness , they eventually somehow knew that they no more have the same place in each other's hearts simply beacuse they've been taken away by their new loves.
Let me give you another example.
There are these two friends. Pretty close to each other One day one of them shifts to a distant place .
Now let me tell you one thing. All those "If you two truly love each other , you will survive it" stuff is like really fake.
Long distance relationships are they lie teenagers say so that they wouldn't have too look good everyday and still be committed.
So , these two friends.
They stay in touch with each other for weeks but eventually obviously they grew apart.
That's where friendship ends.
Believe me you can live in a world of fantasy but eventually , one fine day , reality will kick in and tell you there's no such thing as forever.
Even if you two survive till school , you'll be in seperate colleges and then you two get whole two different lives and then you'll eventually get so lost in this new life you are living that you'll actually forget that you two were a part of each other's life.
So friendship isn't forever.
Proved above. (if you still don't believe it , Damn , you just have too much optimisim to exist in one single human.)
Since I've explained about friendship , let me start talking about family or the so called people who promise to be with you forever.
Let me tell you family isn't forever my little gummy drops.
I'll just kick in with reality instead of telling you guys about living the dreams first.
Let me tell you ,
The brother who loves you so much now , will agree to his wife when she back bitches about you 20 years later.
The mother who cares for you so much now will one day talk to you as if she's a liability on you.
The dad you love so much will one day live on your brother's money and still be embarrased to come and stay at your house for even one day just because you're his daughter not son.
The family you adore so much will one day marry you into a good paise waali family thinking it will be good for you when only you'll know how it feels like to live on someone else's money for your whole life.
The children you love so much will lie to you , will steal from you, will shout at you for touching their phone, will spent their entire birth-day with friends with your money and will refuse to go out with you even for 2 hours.
Yes this is what you're gonna get from your family when you grow up.
If you still think that there is anything as forever and for eternity in this world ,
No my dear cupcakes , you are highly mistaken.
This is the thing I've learnt.
Forever is just too good to be true.
If you're an optimistic person please do not proceed it might change the way you look at life.
I've already talked about love and have already told you about the shit that it is.
So i am gonna talk about family and friendship in this one.
Let's start with friendship. Yes , its amazing but there's the evil side to it too.
Believe me no frienship is forever.
Some or the other day it will end and then the person who was once so close to you will turn into somebody you just used to know.
I mean some or the other day some problem will kick in and you and your beee aiiff aiiff will stop being friends for some or the other reason.
Don't believe me?
Let me enlighten you with some good examples.
There's this girl who has a beee aiiifff aiiiff.
Now both of them are single.
And hence are 24/7 on the phone with each other.
They become really close.
Like really really close.
But then reality kicks in.
They two have a fight and don't talk for weeks.
And when they start becoming friends again , they both are commited.
So now , they obviously don't talk to each other 24/7 actually they don't even talk.
And obviously it doesn't even affects them. Does it?
Why?
I'll give you the damn reason.
Their relationships!
When you are single , it's like you need to find happiness in small things like rain , those special and occasional hugs and kisses you get from your brother, those chocolates you get from your best friends, the joy you get on sharing a small chocolate of 6 peices with 10 people .
So when they were single , they sort of made themselves each other's biggest happiness but when they suddenly got boyfriends or new-source-of-happiness , they eventually somehow knew that they no more have the same place in each other's hearts simply beacuse they've been taken away by their new loves.
Let me give you another example.
There are these two friends. Pretty close to each other One day one of them shifts to a distant place .
Now let me tell you one thing. All those "If you two truly love each other , you will survive it" stuff is like really fake.
Long distance relationships are they lie teenagers say so that they wouldn't have too look good everyday and still be committed.
So , these two friends.
They stay in touch with each other for weeks but eventually obviously they grew apart.
That's where friendship ends.
Believe me you can live in a world of fantasy but eventually , one fine day , reality will kick in and tell you there's no such thing as forever.
Even if you two survive till school , you'll be in seperate colleges and then you two get whole two different lives and then you'll eventually get so lost in this new life you are living that you'll actually forget that you two were a part of each other's life.
So friendship isn't forever.
Proved above. (if you still don't believe it , Damn , you just have too much optimisim to exist in one single human.)
Since I've explained about friendship , let me start talking about family or the so called people who promise to be with you forever.
Let me tell you family isn't forever my little gummy drops.
I'll just kick in with reality instead of telling you guys about living the dreams first.
Let me tell you ,
The brother who loves you so much now , will agree to his wife when she back bitches about you 20 years later.
The mother who cares for you so much now will one day talk to you as if she's a liability on you.
The dad you love so much will one day live on your brother's money and still be embarrased to come and stay at your house for even one day just because you're his daughter not son.
The family you adore so much will one day marry you into a good paise waali family thinking it will be good for you when only you'll know how it feels like to live on someone else's money for your whole life.
The children you love so much will lie to you , will steal from you, will shout at you for touching their phone, will spent their entire birth-day with friends with your money and will refuse to go out with you even for 2 hours.
Yes this is what you're gonna get from your family when you grow up.
If you still think that there is anything as forever and for eternity in this world ,
No my dear cupcakes , you are highly mistaken.
This is the thing I've learnt.
Forever is just too good to be true.
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