Bleh.

For everything that you do, a part of you suffers.At times, even doing the right things hurt.And they hurt bad.As they says that the fire is in the sun. But the burning is faced by the earth.Same way, the eyes do the love and the suffering is done by the heart.No one can be blamed or cursed for it but it happens. We all fall in love with the idea with love some or the other day and sometimes, when you least expect it, you do fall in love.But as someone else has said, "Loving is so short, forgetting is so long..." is also true.Yes love hurts but before the crying part, there is that part which will make you happy.There are going to be smiles. There is going to be laughter.There will be a time when just looking him in the eye will make your day and there will be nothing else you'll ever need. But after that phase is over, another phase and time will come. When everything you once loved will be over. Gone. Just like that. And then will come the hardest part of the story. The part when you don't know what's right, letting go or holding on.You'll cry, you'll be on the hook, you'll hope. But one fine day, you'll stop waiting around. You'll stop hoping for him to come back. Because that fine day, you'll realize he's not worth it. And if you have something better next to you, just hold on to him and give him all you can. Because maybe, even if not soon, you'll realize if someone can make you smile and laugh, he is worth it. Even if you aren't.Just do what your heart says because you'll never regret the things you do from the heart.Bottom line is, be with someone who makes you happy and try your best to keep him happy.Even if you don't like it because maybe one day, you'll love it. :)
And to add to it, one more quote I love "Why be alone when we can be together.... I can make your life worthwhile.. And you can make my life start to smile."

After A Storm, Comes A Rainbow.

Hello there peeps.

Today I'm going to talk about what I've recently learnt, rather discovered.

So the thing is that yes people, life's hard.

Maybe it's not fair to you right now and maybe you've suffered enough.

But the thing is that no matter how hard it is, it is awesome.

Well yeah I'm probably the last person for giving advises on optimism but I guess I've learnt this lesson.

No matter now hard life is and how much it sucks at times, you just gotta make it through.

The tears, the cries and the pain is important.

You know why?

Because after you've suffered, and the story's over, there's this feeling you'll get.

The feeling that even after going through that rough patches and all the shit, you made it, will make you feel awesome.

And that is what makes all the tears, lies and drama, worth it.

You'll never know what happiness means until you've faced misery and tragedy.

It's hard and at times it'll make you cry and break down.

But that rough patch is the most important part of the journey.

Because we all hate the storms.

So when we learn to live it and face it with a smile and make it through, is exactly when we'll learn to appreciate the rainbow that comes after wards. 

So learn to deal with the rough patches, dry away the tears and make your lips touch your ears.

Trust me there's nothing more beautiful than the smile that has struggled through the tears. 

We all love rainbows and wait for them. What we don't like and fear is the storm. 

Learning to face the storm, dance in the rain and making it through with a smile is what makes you different and stronger than the world.

Yes. I've had a lot of drama in the past and I've broken down too but now I've learnt to give the devils a smile, for I have learnt to seek out for the angels.

And they are always there for sure. 

"Life is beautiful." 

Rightly said indeed. :)

Life Lessons From Just A Lost Fish In The Sea.

Move over all the crazy shit you have pulled up in the past.

Stop waiting around for people who aren't worth it.

Learn to make the most out of the moment.

Make people laugh when you don't feel like smiling.

Let go of what you can't change.

Don't chase after what doesn't work. Let the universe take over.

Accept the changers in yourself ; they may turn out to be good later.

Don't wait for things to happen, make them happen instead.

Move over unsuccessful relationships, unjust companion-ships and terminated love stories. 

Forget what you regret.

Do not regret the things that make you happy.

Learn to deal with it.

Make it through when you don't want to.

And all the while, smile :)

Realization.

I thought 2012 was the worst year possible in my life and I thought 2013 would be awesome as it would compensate for the shit that happened.
But as they days go by, I begin to realize that just when you think it can't get any worse, it can.

Quotes =D

So just because I still have nothing to talk about, I'm posting some quotes.
Some are copied while some are written by me. :)

Introspection's hard.

Okay so here's the thing. I’ve been miserable for the past week. I am easily confused, perennially frustrated, and surprisingly lonely for a person who is constantly surrounded by a hell lot of people. Yes, all the old shit of being the sad and lonely girl is back. But whatever, leaving that out, oh wait, there is nothing at all I have nothing at all to talk about. No kidding. I mean it is kind of weird for a person like me who always have some or the other thing to talk about. I miss myself. I swear, I do but well, in the past I've been in this mood over and over again but every time I broke down, I bounced back. Somehow I picked myself up and got over it. But this time, it is just weird. It’s like I don't want to bounce back. I don't want to be normal again. I like being broken heart-ed because the truth is, I don't have the courage to pick up the broken pieces and be myself again. I don't want to fix my heart. That lost love; I don't want to bring it back because I am tired. I am tired of people taking me for granted and leaving me every time. I am tired of people coming to me, getting close and then walking away and then saying that the only reason they ever came close was because I needed them. Well so this is for the world. I am okay on my own and I don't need any one. I don't need anyone to fix my broken heart because I am happy with the broken pieces. Yes, I got hurt but I let go. I didn't move on but I just stopped waiting around. I am not moving to anyone new right now because no guy is worth it right now. I'll fall in love someday again. But this time, at the right time, with the right person.  #Because someone said that love does not happens in an age you can't even pick out which dress to wear. =D