|RudraSharmaForLifeAndBeyond|

Remember when I wrote that post about "The one's got away." ?

That post brought in a new reader to my blog. 
Rudra Pratap Singh Sharma. 
So, he asked - " Where am I?" 
So I promised him that I would dedicate a full post to him. 
Rudra , here I am keeping my promise.

So 29th September , eh? 
Something special today? 
Hell yess bichaaais. 
Today is the birthday of the cutest , hottest , sweetest , adorable-est friend I ever had. 
Today is Rudra aka Rudy's birthday. 

So , where it all began ? 
3 and a half years back. 
Remember? 
6th. 
We were so fucking weird back then. 
You were hung up on Samiha and well , you , me and harleen sort of created a fun trio. 
Them you're coming to the tuition went on and off and on and off.

But then , you finally came back in 9th. 
Eeeeeee... 
I am glad you came. <3  
And 9th has been so much fun. 
Oh yes fuckers. 
Awesome fun. =D  
I don't know why you don't like blue lays. They're my all time favourite. 
And mister, get an appetite. 
And if you have one, stop pretending you don't. 
Btw, sexy people drink Pepsi, so start drinking it.

I remember all those crazy things we did. 
--The time you invented the dialogue "Bas yahin pe na, yahin pe, tumhaara zyaada ho jataa hain." 
Damn , I love this xD 
--That day we went for hokkah. 
Did I tell you you were looking hot that day? 
--That time, you gave me weird expressions while I was having chicken and you told me to eat it with the bones.Seriously , how can you be a vegetarian? 
--That time we clicked those awesome pictures. 
I hate anmol for deleting them. Seriously hate him. -.-
--That time when I offered you blue lays and you said I don't like them and I gave you a you-gotta-be-fucking-kidding-me kindaa look. 
--Those times I taught you maths. Teaching you is fun. Really. 
--That time I met you near sikshaya while you were coming and I was going and you said -"kaha chali anarkali?". I don't know why but that moment is stuck in my mind ever since it happened. 
--That time when you asked me what type of a guy do I like and I said your type. And then you gave me the reaction- "Naaiiicee" in your tone which I am never ever able to copy. -.-
--That time when you, me and Nandini were together in the T.T room doing that model test paper-13 and you both went crazy and I was a little irritated but afterwards me and Nandini started teasing you with Riya's name in front of Manish Sir. 
I so loved that day. 
--That time when I said -"Rudra ke bachche , agar tu 5 minute mein apni computer ki book lekar nahi ayaa, fir dekhiyo" on the phone and you went to Pushkar's place to get his book. 
And we ended up leaving Pushkar's book at Janta book depot :P 
--Those times when you wrote on your hands "80% is the call".
--That time when Giaa wrote Riya's name on your hand. :P 
--That time when you started telling me what actually happened between Riya and you and what that fucktard Vijay did. 
--That time when you , speedy and Shruti clicked pictures without me. :/
--That time when I spoke a little too much about You and Riya this sunday and you said that Batra bakers thing in front of everyone. -.- 
--That time when you, me , Nandini, Shivam and Harsh went to the market and had fruit beer. That was fun too. 
--That time when you said - "Lakshita, 80% dilwaade , bike aa jayegi" and I replied - "Mujhe bhi rides degaa" 
Yes , I am mean. 
--That time when I told you that there's a spare bike at my place but no one is ready to teach me how to ride a bike and  you said -"Abhi nikaal la, main sikhaata hu." 
--That time when you came to the tuition in the summer holidays for dance. When I saw you my reaction was - o_0 Now , who's she? 
LOL, just kidding.  I was damn happy. 
--That Sunday you came to tuition for the first time and we did lines and angles together. 
--Those times you called Katyaini , Kanyakumaari. xP 
--That time when everyone was teasing you because you and Riya ,both were wearing green and you said -"Toh Lakshita bhi toh green pehen ke aaiyi hain." and I said - "I am wearing sea green." and you said -"Toh, tum meri sea, main tumhaara algae" :*
--Today. It was absolute fun. The pictures bro, weren't they just awesome? 
Oh yes , I can go on and on and on.
I ain't no kidding.  
I actually remember all the things we did.


So let's tell you some things I want to confess.
--Everybody thinks you are my crush and I don't know why. :/
--You are Nandini's current crush. (shh.. secret, bro :P)
--Divyansh Arya thinks you are comitted with Pratibha.
--I don't like Mitansh. He is an ass. So dare ever tease me with his name. 
--If I would want to date anyone, I would never go for someone like Mitansh. Tujh jaise ladke kya mar gaye hain? xP

It's always been fun with you. Always.
But dude :/
You missed the scholarship fun, man.
You were really missed in our group.

Seriously Rudra?
Couldn't you go for a better girlfriend than Riya?
I mean, 6 billion girls on this planet and you had to date the girl I hate the most.
Why ?
Couldn't you give me a better name to tease you with?


So you know you're best friends when: 
-You two know all about each others past. Check. 
-You two just don't know each other's
stories, you two have actually lived them with each other. Check. 
-You have laughed a tonn with each other. Check. 
-You have cried for him/her. Don't know about you , but I have. So, check. {You are not allowed to ask why, when and  where.} 
-You both know that both of you are totally Insane. Check. 
So I guess we are kind of best friends aren't we?

Thankyou so much for being there Ruşty. 
I heart you and I always will. 
Here's to the randomest talks, to the trips to the malviya nagar market, to the upcoming hangouts at Ice cafe and spasso, to the tuition fun together, to the unlimited watsapp conversations., to the numerous dialogues, to the typical "Scene banaalo yaar" dialogues, to the Fuck we still 't have a good picture together. 
You have given me every single reason to write down such a huge post for you.

I love you for joining sikshaya namah back and you dare leave it again due to what so ever silly reason.
You are not going back again. 
Btw , the whole fucking tuition thinks we're together. 
Just so you know. 
But let them say what they want to say. 
No one and nothing can come between you and me.
I love you so fucking much.

And one reason why you weren't in the post " The one's who got away" is because you aren't one of them. You are among the few ones who came back.

Got so close this year right? 
I love you and I always will. 
You are mine. Get that? 
Friendships are like tom and jerry. 
They tease each other. 
They knock down each other. 
They irritate each other. 
But in the end, they can't live without each other. 
Will you be my tom?

You will always stay special no matter what.

|RudraSharmaForLifeAndBeyond|

Like I promised, a freakishly long post on my blog . Just for you :*

You owe me some bike rides. :P 
Well it's your birthday , so whatever you want. 
Promise. 
Pinky promise.

Happy birthday. 
Congratulations for your new tab 2. 
And 
Congratulations in advance for your bike. 
Sorry for the teasing with Riya's name. I know you don't like it. 


Happy birthday once again. 
Have a blast. I know you will. 
K. Bye?

And and and,
As I said, 
I love you, fuck them all.

That's him!

I know he's hot. 

Happy birthday Rudra! 

Cupcakes<3

Everyday when I wake up , two faces cross my mind.
They're my constant companians , my gossip girls ,my bitching partners and my duthe log for life.
They're my best friends, my everything.
It's been three and a half years since we met.
Now I actually can't even begin to imagine what and how my life would have been without them.
So many things we've done together, people think we're insane, if only they knew.
In the past , we've had our differences but our friendship still remains the same.
They're the ones who I can trust and confide in.
They're the ones ,I can share everything with.
They're the ones I dance with every summer.
No one can ever replace them.
At times , they're the only people who help me get through the day.
So many captions I have written for them and still words fall short to describe the three of us together.
I feel amazed when I actually think about the moments we have spent together.
3 years and so many moments.
But wait , where have the three of us gone? 
It's been weeks since all three of us were actually together.
Why ?
I don't have the answer.
Because of whom?
I don't have the answer.
But I do have a question - When are they going to be back?
I am so sorry speedy.
I hope it's not too late to apologize.
I don't know what the hell I did that made you go but come back home please?
I am dying to have a chill out and it wouldn't be one without you.
Errrr...
Cheesy much?
Ohh the most definitely.
So my dear duthe log , be back soon.
I am really miss our craziness on streets.
No one has eaten up all my brain since as long as I can remmember and It feels weird.
This is the last attempt ,woth sugar-coated words,  I am gonna make to bring you both back to our town.
Next time , you both get a slap on your ugly faces and kicks on your sexy asses.
 
So do as I say or don't hold me responsible for the consequences you two are gonna have to face.
When I get up , two faces cross my mind.
Yes , I miss hearing them laugh from behind.

Another Night.

My eyes cried a rain last night.
That even the dry dreams got wet.
Sleep cried in the corner of my eyelids.
Even my heart got hurt by the tears.
Guess it's the black season, without sunshine.
The black clouds have come and aren't going anywhere for a long time.

I guess it's sort of a friendship I made with these black nights.
And these black roads have nothing for me except pain.
Don't know how i bear these moments.
Every moment , there's only one thing i say to myself.
You are forgotten.
But then again,
Why did the memories made me cry?

When I miss you,
I hear the words of the memories we spent.
Even the memories ask "Why did you two separate?"
All we got is distance between us.
What was written has happened.
And I have to live with it.
I know you're not mine.

But being yours is the one thing I have always done.

Guilt.Remorse.Greif.

That's somethings I have a lot these days.

Honestly,being a broken hearted is somehow better than being the one who broke a heart.
Breaking a heart is not easy but sometimes it's the only option left.
Yes , I broke a heart and I am not proud of it.
And even though I tried to escape with the utmost dignity,I feel it's all my fault.
I have been a broken hearted and only I know how I managed to put up with a smile those days.
But now that I am the one who broke a heart I can't mend , I feel awful. But I just don't feel that he is mine to take.
Sometimes I think that we don't belong together.
It just doesn't feels right.
Being with him was amazing.
But whenever I ask myself "Do I love him?" , My heart shouts no.
I can't shut my heart out.
After I broke up,  I felt lonely for a few days . I no longer had that one to talk to anytime of the day. I no longer had that one who scolded me for my good. I no longer had those awfully cute messages with all those sugar coated words from him. I no longer had him.
He wasn't mine anymore.
I tried my old trick that doesn't work. I tried to overcome my guilt pretending I didn't care.
But truth is , I did care.
Even though he wasn't the one for me , at times , he was the only thing that got me through the day. Knowing someone out there cares for you and loves you despite your flaws is an amazing feeling.
I no longer had my happy ending.

It's not that this break up has been easy on me. I am filled with pain and guilt all throughout.
Just because I decide to deal with my pain by not crying doesn't makes me selfish.
Just because my eyes don't show tears doesn't means that I don't cry.
Just because I come out strong does not mean that I don't get hurt.
I often pretend to just smile and act strong.
Smiling has always been easier.
Moreover, I don't have any shoulder to cry on these days.
I don't have any ears around here who would hear my heart's pain.
I don't have anyone to cry my heart out to.
I have lost them all.

Yes, I don't cry all the time now.
But every day , every hour, for a minute, you cross my mind and I get lost in the ocean of my anguish and I close my eyes , swallow my tears and let my heart cry in its silence.
Then, I just smile.

Still Searching For The *One*

Same old story.
More on that later.

Forever? What's that?

Now this post is exclusively for people who believe in forever. 
If you're an optimistic person please do not proceed it might change the way you look at life. 
I've already talked about love and have already told you about the shit that it is. 
So i am gonna talk about family and friendship in this one. 
Let's start with friendship. Yes , its amazing but there's the evil side to it too. 
Believe me no frienship is forever. 
Some or the other day it will end and then the person who was once so close to you will turn into somebody you just used to know. 
I mean some or the other day some problem will kick in and you and your beee aiiff aiiff will stop being friends for some or the other reason. 
Don't believe me? 
Let me enlighten you with some good examples. 
There's this girl who has a beee aiiifff aiiiff. 
Now both of them are single. 
And hence are 24/7 on the phone with each other. 
They become really close. 
Like really really close. 
But then reality kicks in. 
They two have a fight and don't talk for weeks. 
And when they start becoming friends again , they both are commited. 
So now , they obviously don't talk to each other 24/7 actually they don't even talk. 
And obviously it doesn't even affects them. Does it? 
Why? 
I'll give you the damn reason. 
Their relationships! 
When you are single , it's like you need to find happiness in small things like rain , those special and occasional hugs and kisses you get from your brother, those chocolates you get from your best friends, the joy you get on sharing a small chocolate of 6 peices with 10 people . 
So when they were single , they sort of made themselves each other's biggest happiness but when they suddenly got boyfriends or new-source-of-happiness , they eventually somehow knew that they no more have the same place in each other's hearts simply beacuse they've been taken away by their new loves. 
Let me give you another example. 
There are these two friends. Pretty close to each other One day one of them shifts to a distant place . 
Now let me tell you one thing. All those "If you two truly love each other , you will survive it" stuff is like really fake. 
Long distance relationships are they lie teenagers say so that they wouldn't have too look good everyday and still be committed. 
So , these two friends. 
They stay in touch with each other for weeks but eventually obviously they grew apart. 
That's where friendship ends. 
Believe me you can live in a world of fantasy but eventually , one fine day , reality will kick in and tell you there's no such thing as forever. 
Even if you two survive till school , you'll be in seperate colleges and then you two get whole two different lives and then you'll eventually get so lost in this new life you are living that you'll actually forget that you two were a part of each other's life.

So friendship isn't forever. 

Proved above. (if you still don't believe it , Damn , you just have too much optimisim to exist in one single human.)


Since I've explained about friendship , let me start talking about family or the so called people who promise to be with you forever. 
Let me tell you family isn't forever my little gummy drops. 
I'll just kick in with reality instead of telling you guys about living the dreams first. 
Let me tell you , 
The brother who loves you so much now , will agree to his wife when she back bitches about you 20 years later. 
The mother who cares for you so much now will one day talk to you as if she's a liability on you. 
The dad you love so much will one day live on your brother's money and still be embarrased to come and stay at your house for even one day just because you're his daughter not son.
The family you adore so much will one day marry you into a good paise waali family thinking it will be good for you when only you'll know how it feels like to live on someone else's money for your whole life. 
The children you love so much will lie to you , will steal from you, will shout at you for touching their phone, will spent their entire birth-day with friends with your money and will refuse to go out with you even for 2 hours.
Yes this is what you're gonna get from your family when you grow up. 
If you still think that there is anything as forever and for eternity in this world , 
No my dear cupcakes , you are highly mistaken. 

This is the thing I've learnt. 
Forever is just too good to be true.

The One's Who Got Away

In English class today, my sir said -Reminiscent is when you look back at the past and feel happy.

Since then all I have been thinking about the good days of my past.

And well for a change, I feel glad I was a part of it.

So this post is strictly for the gone-by days and the people that are not with me anymore(not that they are dead :P)

So the first person that comes into my mind when I think of the people I miss is Kartikeya Bakshi.

AKA Katy.

He was my best friend once upon a time but then this shit douche bag shifted to gurgaon. :/

I miss this shit head like a lot.

We were friends for two years.

When I look back on the time we spent together , I can't help but laugh.

It was just too awesome.

His birthday last year was legendary.

Sadly it was also the last birthday he would spend with us.

I love him so much.

And I miss him even more.

We used to have so much fun.

He used to live literally in the next house from our tuition.

So whenever I went for an extra class, I would make sure he was with me.

No other guy can take his place.

He was katy after all.

I know he's cute.

Damn , I want him back.

That's us together. I know the pic's a little sweaty but if it's me and him , never mind. 

So the next person that comes in my mind when I think of people I miss is Rhytham Wadhwa.

She was in my tuition in 7th but even she left it. 

So we no more talk but still give each other those calls every month and just share a bit of our lives.

I know she's hot and pretty. You can close your mouth now.She is the prettiest bitch I've ever got. And she's just too sweet to be true. We've never had a fight. She's my only bitch who doesn't has attitude.

I miss her so much. Why do people have to leave? why?

Even though she's gone and we don't talk that much anymore , Still she has the same special corner in my heart she had two years ago. :)

Bitch , it's been 6 months since I met you :O
Show me your pretty face soon!

I miss it. 

Yeah  we're the girls with the guns and roses.

The next person I miss is Our Laaallluuuuuu..

Or Akshat Verma.

Bob the builderrr!

He's the rude-est person I know and he's very mean but me still loves him.

He's dated my oldest friend -mansi motwani (you'll keep hearing this name in the next few blogs)

Even this idiot left tuiton. :/

But mahine mein ek baar toh galti se dikh hi jaate hain humaare laaalu bhai sahab.

Even though he was rude , He was awesome.

So much fun we've had.

That's him , the Smart Dog!.

Yes he indeed was one.

I don't have a picture with him :/ 

Camera conscious man you see :P

So these are the main three people I miss. The time spent with them is and always will be a reminiscent part of my life.

This is just a small tribute to the by-gone time and the ones that got away.